Lessons I Learned About Love at Tony Robbins Date With Destiny
We just got back last week from an incredible six days with the one and only Tony Robbins at his Date With Destiny (DWD) event! We were lucky to join in person as he does only one live DWD event per year and this was for a small group of attendees to join in the studio. Many people have been asking me about the event wanting to know more so I decided to compile my notes and share them. There are too many insights and lessons to count. Here are some of the lessons I learned about love and relationship:
Love is when you put someone else above yourself.
Relationships are hard when you are overly focused on yourself.
You can’t change anything/anyone you are blaming.
The wall that protects you is the wall that imprisons you.
There are seasons of development we all must go through in an intimate relationship.
Fall in love with meeting your partners needs.
The more rules you have about how love should be, the harder it will be for you to experience love.
Love is a process, not a thing.
The more you express love, the more you will feel love.
You must earn your love for yourself.
90% of relationship is selection. Which part/s of you do you select to bring to your intimate relationship?
Choose passionate love over certain love. There’s no passion when you’re certain.
Feminine energy focuses on connection. Masculine energy focuses on hierarchy.
Feminine energy grows with praise. Masculine energy grows with challenge.
Commit to bringing high levels of energy in your relationship.
Be a generous lover.
Love is the ultimate form of significance.
Surrendering to love is the ultimate victory.
Love is the ultimate force in my life. It’s the main driver behind why I do what I do. I used to struggle so much with love. I had so many stories and beliefs about why I wasn’t worthy, didn’t deserve it, couldn’t feel it, etc. I’ve done a complete 180 degree turn and I am eternally grateful that I’ve been able to make those shifts. I never would have thought in a million years I’d be in a relationship with a woman who expresses love so abundantly.
Love makes success in other areas of life so much more enjoyable as it magnifies the emotions we feel. If you don’t feel like you are where you want to be in this area of your life, remember that you are just running certain patterns that are creating the results you are experiencing about love. If you put in the work, surround yourself with people who are expressing love, attend events, invest in a coach, study books, you will get there.
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